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A view of the Gorean Lifestyle and Philosophy based on the Books
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Series 4.b – 10 Scenes That Shaped the Gorean Lifestyle Community (and Why) – Part 3 – From Proud Beauty to Serving Slave – Aphris of Turia’s Surrender
From Proud Beauty to Serving Slave – Aphris of Turia’s Surrender Introduction I remember the first time I read about Aphris of Turia – the transformation of this proud Gorean beauty into a devoted slave utterly captivated me. Her journey, from an aristocratic free… Continue Reading “Series 4.b – 10 Scenes That Shaped the Gorean Lifestyle Community (and Why) – Part 3 – From Proud Beauty to Serving Slave – Aphris of Turia’s Surrender”
Series 4.b – 10 Scenes That Shaped the Gorean Lifestyle Community (and Why) – Part 2 – The Fall of Tharna – When Natural Order Overturns a Matriarchy
In John Norman’s Gor saga, few events illustrate the clash between imposed social order and “natural order” as starkly as the fall of Tharna. In Outlaw of Gor, the city of Tharna stands out as an anomaly on Gor – a matriarchal stronghold ruled by a queen (the Tatrix)… Continue Reading “Series 4.b – 10 Scenes That Shaped the Gorean Lifestyle Community (and Why) – Part 2 – The Fall of Tharna – When Natural Order Overturns a Matriarchy”
Series 4.b – 10 Scenes That Shaped the Gorean Lifestyle Community (and Why) – Part 1 – The Home Stone of Port Kar – Loyalty and Belonging in Action
In this special set of articles, I’ll dive into ten memorable scenes from John Norman’s Gor novels that have profoundly influenced the Gorean lifestyle community (and me personally). Each scene is described without explicit detail, focusing on the philosophy or dynamic it illustrates. I’ll… Continue Reading “Series 4.b – 10 Scenes That Shaped the Gorean Lifestyle Community (and Why) – Part 1 – The Home Stone of Port Kar – Loyalty and Belonging in Action”
Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 6: Confronting the Controversies: Misconceptions and Reality-Checks
No guide to Gor would be complete without addressing the elephants in the room… The series is deeply controversial and has been for decades. By now you’ve gathered why: Gor depicts women as natural slaves and men as rightful masters in often explicit detail.… Continue Reading “Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 6: Confronting the Controversies: Misconceptions and Reality-Checks”
Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 5: Where to Find the Gor Books (Legally and Easily)
Embarking on this 38-volume journey means you’ll need access to the books. Fortunately, despite the series’ rocky publication history, today all Gor novels are available in print and digital formats – no need to scour used bookstores unless you want collectible old editions. A… Continue Reading “Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 5: Where to Find the Gor Books (Legally and Easily)”
Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 4: Major Pivotal Books & Moments in the Saga
Throughout the guide provided in the previous posts, we’ve hinted at some of the key pivotal books and scenes. To recap, here are a few milestones to note (as a light checklist for newcomers who like to know when something big is coming): These… Continue Reading “Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 4: Major Pivotal Books & Moments in the Saga”
Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 3: The Philosophy Behind the Fantasy: How Gor Evolved (and Why It’s Not Just “Erotic Pulp”)
When evaluating the Gor books, especially as a newcomer, it’s crucial to understand how the series’ tone and intent evolved over time, in tandem with both the author’s growth and the changing social climate. What began as a relatively straightforward adventure series took on… Continue Reading “Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 3: The Philosophy Behind the Fantasy: How Gor Evolved (and Why It’s Not Just “Erotic Pulp”)”
Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 2: Saga in Stages: Phases of the Gorean Journey – Stage 6
Though the Gorean saga is one long continuum, it’s helpful to break it into phases, each with its own focus and feel. Here’s a roadmap of the journey, with light spoilers (I won’t ruin major twists, only set the stage): 6. Climactic Conclusions (Books… Continue Reading “Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 2: Saga in Stages: Phases of the Gorean Journey – Stage 6”
Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 2: Saga in Stages: Phases of the Gorean Journey – Stage 5
Though the Gorean saga is one long continuum, it’s helpful to break it into phases, each with its own focus and feel. Here’s a roadmap of the journey, with light spoilers (I won’t ruin major twists, only set the stage): 5. The Saga Resumes… Continue Reading “Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 2: Saga in Stages: Phases of the Gorean Journey – Stage 5”
Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 2: Saga in Stages: Phases of the Gorean Journey – Stage 4
Though the Gorean saga is one long continuum, it’s helpful to break it into phases, each with its own focus and feel. Here’s a roadmap of the journey, with light spoilers (I won’t ruin major twists, only set the stage): 4. War and Upheaval… Continue Reading “Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 2: Saga in Stages: Phases of the Gorean Journey – Stage 4”
Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 2: Saga in Stages: Phases of the Gorean Journey – Stage 3
Though the Gorean saga is one long continuum, it’s helpful to break it into phases, each with its own focus and feel. Here’s a roadmap of the journey, with light spoilers (I won’t ruin major twists, only set the stage): 3. The Jason Marshall… Continue Reading “Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 2: Saga in Stages: Phases of the Gorean Journey – Stage 3”
Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 2: Saga in Stages: Phases of the Gorean Journey – Stage 2
Though the Gorean saga is one long continuum, it’s helpful to break it into phases, each with its own focus and feel. Here’s a roadmap of the journey, with light spoilers (I won’t ruin major twists, only set the stage): 2. Broadening Horizons &… Continue Reading “Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 2: Saga in Stages: Phases of the Gorean Journey – Stage 2”
Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 2: Saga in Stages: Phases of the Gorean Journey – Stage 1
Though the Gorean saga is one long continuum, it’s helpful to break it into phases, each with its own focus and feel. Here’s a roadmap of the journey, with light spoilers (I won’t ruin major twists, only set the stage): 1. The Early Adventures… Continue Reading “Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 2: Saga in Stages: Phases of the Gorean Journey – Stage 1”
Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 1: A Reading Guide for Newcomers
First published in 1966, Tarnsman of Gor is shown here with 1976 cover art by Boris Vallejo . This debut sword-and-planet novel launched John Norman’s controversial saga, which now spans 38 books. There is so much to be said about this topic “Where to… Continue Reading “Series 4.a – Where to Start with the Books of Gor – Part 1: A Reading Guide for Newcomers”
Series 3.e – Integrating Gorean Values Into a ‘Vanilla’ Public Life
Stepping into a Gorean lifestyle doesn’t mean leaving the modern world behind. Most Gorean lifestylers hold down jobs, have families, and interact daily with a society that might never guess what happens in their homes after dark. The challenge – and art – lies… Continue Reading “Series 3.e – Integrating Gorean Values Into a ‘Vanilla’ Public Life”
Series 3.d – Bridging Fantasy and Reality in Gorean Relationships
The Gorean lifestyle can be lived in many arenas – from the text-based chat rooms and virtual realms of the internet to the tangible reality of household living. In this episode, we explore how Gor exists online vs. offline, tracing the history of Gorean… Continue Reading “Series 3.d – Bridging Fantasy and Reality in Gorean Relationships”
Series 3.c – The Joy of Service in Gorean Life
If you’ve followed our journey so far (from crafting Gorean household structure to ensuring emotional safety), you know Gor is about bringing ideals into daily life. Now we turn to the heartbeat of that daily life: service. What does it mean to live in… Continue Reading “Series 3.c – The Joy of Service in Gorean Life”
Series 3.b – Emotional Safety in Gorean Dynamics: Limits and Aftercare
Embarking on a Gorean-inspired relationship is not a free-for-all of dominance; it’s a deliberate dance built on trust, clarity, and care. In fact, the deeper the power-exchange goes, the more important it is to ground it in consent, open communication, and proper aftercare. This… Continue Reading “Series 3.b – Emotional Safety in Gorean Dynamics: Limits and Aftercare”
Series 3.a – Gorean Living: Crafting Your Ideal Household Structure
If you’ve been following this series, you’ll recognize the pattern: Gor isn’t a costume—Gor is a structure of living. The books give us mythology, symbols, and extremes. The lifestyle—when done well—extracts principles and turns them into a home you can actually live in: stable,… Continue Reading “Series 3.a – Gorean Living: Crafting Your Ideal Household Structure”
Series 2.e – Aligning Words and Actions in Gorean Life
In Gorean philosophy, a promise carries the weight of law and is sealed with personal honor. One of the simplest yet most demanding principles in Gorean philosophy is this: words must align with deeds. On Gor, saying “I give you my word” is not… Continue Reading “Series 2.e – Aligning Words and Actions in Gorean Life”
Series 2.d – Understanding Gorean Natural Order: Philosophy and Modern Life
Gorean philosophy has a reputation for its emphasis on instinct, hierarchy, and nature – often summed up in the idea of a “Natural Order.” In this episode, we’ll demystify what Natural Order really means in the world of Gor and in modern Gorean lifestyle… Continue Reading “Series 2.d – Understanding Gorean Natural Order: Philosophy and Modern Life”
Series 2.c — Strength and Vulnerability: The Gorean View of Masculinity and Femininity
One of the biggest misunderstandings about Gor is that it’s “all about power.” But when you actually pay attention to what pulls people in—again and again—it’s something subtler: Gor is obsessed with what makes a person worthy. Worthy of trust. Worthy of loyalty. Worthy… Continue Reading “Series 2.c — Strength and Vulnerability: The Gorean View of Masculinity and Femininity”
Series 2.b — Freedom, Choice and Voluntary Surrender: A Paradox at the Heart of Gor
One of the strangest truths about Gor is this: The deeper the surrender, the more freedom some people feel. To outsiders, that sounds impossible—maybe even dangerous. How can giving someone authority over you be anything other than losing yourself? And yet, for many Gorean-inspired… Continue Reading “Series 2.b — Freedom, Choice and Voluntary Surrender: A Paradox at the Heart of Gor”
Series 2.a – Honor, Responsibility and Discipline: The Core of Gorean Philosophy
If Series 1 was about clearing the fog—what Gor is, what it isn’t, and how people translate fiction into ethical real life—Series 2 is where we step into the engine room: the philosophy. Because the Gorean lifestyle (when it’s lived well) isn’t built on… Continue Reading “Series 2.a – Honor, Responsibility and Discipline: The Core of Gorean Philosophy”
Series 1.d – Common Misconceptions About the Gorean Lifestyle
By the time most people stumble into anything “Gorean” online, they’ve usually seen at least one of these statements: If that’s all you’ve heard, it’s no wonder the Gorean lifestyle sounds dangerous, ridiculous, or both. This episode is here to slow everything down, breathe,… Continue Reading “Series 1.d – Common Misconceptions About the Gorean Lifestyle”
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